I am having a little bit of a crabby day. Elijah is being mostly good, but I did not get enough sleep so I am tiered and well crabby. So at snack time when Elijah had goldfish that he was crushing (and getting the crumbs EVERYWHERE). Instead of getting mad I said that he had to sweep up all the crumbs. He did not like this idea at first, but had fun with it while he was doing it. I am proud of myself for coming up with a good solution that works for both of us.